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A
step towards Empowerment
Excerpts of an interview with a Beneficiary of Income
Generating Programmes
Q:
Since how long are you residing in this slum?
A: I am residing in this slum since
eleven years.
Q: How many children do you have?
A: I have two boys and two girls.
Q: What was your previous occupation?
A: I am a native of Hyderabad.
Earlier, our means of livelihood
was my husband’s earnings, he is a painter.
I did not work, as my
children were too small and earnings of my husband
was sufficient.
As children started growing, we were finding our
earnings
insufficient to meet the requirements. The biggest
challenge and
need was to send children to school. So I decided
to work and took to this occupation as I had earlier
learned tailoring.
Q: What is your education ?
A: I have studied till 7th class.
Later, due to marriage I had to stop my studies.
Q: From whom did you take loans earlier
and what was the rate of interest?
A: I have not taken money from
outside earlier.
Q: How did you come to know about HCHW-A.P.?
A: I came to know about HCHW-A.P.
from its staff members who used to move in our Basthi
enlightening
us on different issues.
Q: When did you join the group?
A: I joined the group in 1999.
Q: What is the name of your group and who
named it?
A: The name of my group is Ujala
and we members have named it.
Q: How was the behaviour of your husband,
in-laws and other relatives towards you, four years
back and now do you see any change ?.
A: I am lucky, the response of
my family members has always been positive. They
felt very happy.
Q: What is your income?
A: Earlier, my income was
Rs. 800/- per month but now after I have expanded
my business through IGP loan, my income has increased
to Rs.1500 /- per month.
Q: Have you everrealised the benefits of
joining intoSHGs ?
A: Benefits are many after joining
into SHGs.
- We
learned about so many issues and our level of
awareness has improved.
-
We have come to know how to protect ourselves
against certain diseases.
- We
are aware of a number of Government Schemes.
- I
have also got loan for both consumption as well
as production purposes.
- I
have inculcated the habit of savings. Today,
I have an amount of Rs. 1100/- as my own savings
in group
and I am indeed proud of it.
- My
communication skills have improved. We Muslim
Women are not allowed to talk to any outsider,
so
earlier I used to have hesitation in talking
to any one but now I can talk freely to anyone.
Q:
Did you know about the Government Schemes earlier?
A: No, I came to know about it
after joining group.
Q: What do you feel about savings?
A: I am feeling very happy after
being able to save money.
Q:Do you have a say in decision- making
process athome ?
A: There is mutual understanding
in decision making process between my husband and
myself After joining
group, whenever we have any problem we sit and talk
over it and decide.
Q: Why you thought to start this IGP, what
made you start this IGP?
A: I knew tailoring earlier but
was unable to make income out of it. I took loan
to set up a full fledged unit and
then expanded it and the results are visible.
Q: Why have you taken loan from HCHW-A.P.
only, why not from other source ?
A: I have taken loan from HCHW
because the rate of interest is low; repayment is
through easy monthly
installment and above all there is no exploitation.
Q: Are you satisfied with the loan?
A: Yes, I am very much satisfied.
Q: How much loan have you taken till now?
A: I have taken Rs. 3000/- as loan
till now.
Q: Are you regular in paying the instalments?
A: No, in the beginning I was regular
but after sometime due to some family problems I
was not able to pay
loan on monthly basis..
Q: What are the changes in your life as
a result of IGP?
A: There is a positive change in
our life. We have got many benefits through IGP
by which our business has
improved, the profit helped me to pay fees of my
children and to give them good education which is
the
ultimate aim of both my husband and myself.
Q: What are your future aspirations?
A: I want to expand my business. I need
Rs. 10,000 /- to expand my business and for that
I will be applying
for a loan of Rs. 5000/-
Our
Work with Women through the words of Malan
I was born in a poor family of five sisters and
two younger brothers. My mother was a maid servant
and father a richshawpuller, a thorough drunkard
drinking all his earnings. I don’t remember
much of my childhood or my house as I was there
for a very short time. I was very small, I do not
even remember properly when I started working as
a domestic servant
rather a bonded labour. Yes, I remember my father
coming once a year and taking away the money from
my master. I would work, work and only work the
whole day long -all for an adequate meal. Apart
from doing all household chores, I would have to
take care of my Master’s four year old boy.
I always wanted to go to school like my master’s
daughter but couldn’t. Thanks to Bade Amma
(my master’s mother) who was kind enough and
taught me to read urdu. At the age of 15, I was
married and by 17, mother of two. My husband was
not a drunkard like my father but was very lazy
and would never go to work. He always wanted to
make quick money for which he would gamble with
his friends. I would try to explain to him that
it is of no use to get into such activities but
he would not listen and worst of all, his mother
would support him. My mother-in-law being very orthodox
would not let me even peep out of the house. My
children would sometimes sleep hungry, I would then
think of working somewhere but I knew that my mother-in-law
would not allow me to do so. The only solution for
the family was to borrow money from the money lender
at high rates of interest time and again. One day
when my mother-in-law was away to her native place,
I had attended HCHW community meeting, where I was
introduced to the concept of ‘Self Help Groups’.
I was convinced with the idea and immediately acted
upon pooling members to form a SHG called Ujala,
registered with HCHW. Initially, I would hide from
family members and attend the group meetings. However,
I was able to save an amount of Rs.30/- every month
without the knowledge of my husband and mother-in-law.
In my late childhood days, I had a chance to stitch
my own torned and shattered clothes in my master’s
house with the limited skills I had learnt with
help of Badeamma. Soon after the marriage, my mother-in-law
referred me to her close friend (neighbour) in order
to groom
my skills in stitching. The prime motive is to add
up family income out of this earnings. However,
it has really picked up in terms of business after
I enrolled in SHG. While interacting with the other
members of my Self Help Group and other Self Help
Groups, I have established a good rapport with a
number of women who started giving me business.
*Name is changed to respect confidentiality
In
the process, I got in touch with few women who use
to stitch cloths for outside shops. I appealed them
to get orders and thereby started stitching clothes
in my house and it became a means of livelihood
for my family. The training programme on Entrepreneurial
Development Skills have really helped me at that
time and I learned the art of business. As months
passed by, I have understood the concept of ‘Savings
and Credit Management’ and realised that I
can access credit facility ranging from Rs.5,000
to Rs.8,000. Suddenly there was a medical emergency
in the family, as my mother-in-law had to undergo
a hysterectomy. My lazy husband was in a shock and
made desperate attempts to support her beloved mother.
At that moment, I pat on my husband’s shoulder
and shared with him the available alternative to
seek credit explaining
him the concept of ‘Self Help Promotion’
initiated by HCHW in our slums. Although surprised
he came along with me and together we sought the
help of the HCHW-staff who guided us to avail the
loan from the group for the medical expenses in
the hospital. It was yet difficult for my husband
to believe and accept this alternate access to credit
facility. Earlier to it, we were used to borrow
money only from money lenders paying a huge rate
of interest and keeping some security with them.
This time there was nothing left to be kept as security
with money lenders and the amount required was also
huge and that was the major crux of the problem.
Ever since this episode I started noticing a tremendous
change in the attitude, understanding, thinking
and mindset of my husband as well as my mother-in-law.
There was also a change in their behaviour towards
me. HCHW organizes ‘Capacity Building Programmes’
on areas such as Concept and Management, Book-keeping
and Accounts, Banking Rules and Operations, Communication
and Leadership skills, Problem solving as well as
Collective Decision Making so on and so forth. This
made me to think positively towards the approach
and on other end enlightened and encouraged us to
make optimum utilization of available resources.
With a hike in my business, my son had started going
to school but my daughter who is elder to him was
deprived of education. The reason being very simple
that my family members did not accept a girl child
going to school. However, they could realize the
importance only after intervention of HCHW staff.
Later, she was ‘enrolled in school’
with their help. “Today, I proudly feel, SHG
fund serves as an alternate source of arrangement
for paying school fees and other demands at school,”
says Malan. The Capacity Building Programmes on
entrepreneurial and management skills have infact
helped me to develop my work more in a business
form. Looking at growth in business, I was infact
suggested by HCHW-staff to submit an ‘Income
Generating Project Proposal’ so as to expand
it further. In making so, HCHW helped me a lot in
preparing the proposal understanding the concept,
plan and
execute the business with other women employed with
me. Earlier, I was not aware of the different Government
Schemes available and would have never dared to
visit Government Departments. Basically, it was
a myth that the officers would ask money for every
small thing and I was quite hesitant to visit their
offices. With the appropriate guidance and support
of HCHW, we are able to develop ‘linkages
with the Government’. In this way, we started
meeting officials and pursuing our demands and fulfilling
the needs gradually. We are benefited by a lot of
schemes available with the Government such as Deepam
Scheme (gas connections), roads, houses, pattas,
electricity, water, pipe-line, borewells, better
sanitation facilities, ration cards, revolving fund
and so on.
I
was always appreciated by HCHW for my active participation
and leadership qualities in the community. Probably
this was why they have made me the volunteer and
asked me to co-ordinate the activities of ten groups.
Now I have been selected as ‘Group Community
Organizer’ by the Municipal Corporation of
Hyderabad. Earlier, I was more or less treated as
a maid servant in my own house by my in-laws and
dear husband. My work was just to cook, wash clothes,
do other household chores, lookafter the children
as well as to fulfill the pleasures of my husband.
Moreover there was no participation or my say with
regard to day-to-day chores and decision making
process at large. However, the scenario has changed
and today, I have really come a long way. My husband
and mother-in-law supports me and seeks my advise,
suggestions as well values them a lot in the decision
making process at all levels. This really boosts
my morale and I am happy with it. Although
I understand this change could perhaps be a result
of becoming the source of access to money. Yet,
I am happy as I have also learned in the process
to use my own control mechanisim whereever and whenever
necessary. Today, I have reached the stage where
I can see dreams and sure of being realised soon....
Proudly says Malan with a smile on her face.
The
Best things of Life . . .
. . . Back to Home Town
Mannu, a tiny child of 10 years belongs
to Nibokabirpur, a very remote village far away
from Banaras of Uttar Pradesh State. He is third
in a row of six siblings of the family.
His father works as a daily wage labour in a cement
factory and mother is a home-maker. His father is
the sole earning member in the family and the mouths
are many, to feed. Mannu was studying in IIIrd standard
in a Government school. Although the school was
not functioning properly, he still continued to
go to school. The reason was … the school
used to provide mid-day meal to children. This was
the only attraction for many other children like
Mannu as they all belong to poverty-stricken families.
The school stopped the mid-day meal programme and
so Mannu also stopped going to school. At the very
young age of 10, Mannu was asked to supplement the
family’s income. The better
option his parents thought was to send him to Mumbai
(Bombay) to work with his maternal uncle. His uncle
was a flower vendor. Things worked fast and Mannu
reached Mumbai. After a few days, Mannu had seen
the ugly face of his uncle who used to abuse and
harass him. “Har choti si baat peh, Mama bahut
gaali galoj karte the aur maarte bhi the”
(for every small
thing, my uncle used to abuse me in filthy language
and used to beat me) said Mannu. Day-by-day the
harassment by the uncle increased and Mannu could
not bear it any more. He wanted to go to his parents
but, the uncle did not send him. One fine day, without
the knowledge of his uncle, Mannu left the home
and reached the Railway station. He boarded a train,
without ticket, thinking that it will take him to
Banaras. He was very much tired and fell asleep.
The next day morning when he woke up, to his surprise
and shock he landed in another unknown place …Secunderabad.
His struggle to survive started. Gradually, he picked
up the street culture and learned to live on street.
His life took another turn when he met the street
educator of HCHW on the street. Mannu was not interested
to go to home as the life on street looked good
to him and hence, he was motivated to join the Child
Development Centre of HCHW. Here, Mannu found a
new world of happy living and joyous childhood.
The constant counselling and motivation by the Counsellor
made Mannu to think of his family again. He agreed
to go back to his family. On 10th December 2004,
Mannu was repatriated with his family. Mannu’s
joy knew no boundaries when he saw his mother and
other siblings. Tears rolled down on his cheeks.
The same was with his mother.
My
Reminiscences
My name is Bheem Rao Vittal. I
do not know when I had come onto the streets and
I am unaware of my parents and their
whereabouts. I only remember my father is in army
and stays away from home most of the time. As a
kid, I remember moving from Nampally Dargah to Ganesh
Temple for food and sleeping at Secunderabad Railway
Station in nights. I have worked earlier as a train
bogie cleaner, picking rags from the dustbins, cleaner
in a hotel and took many myriad odd jobs. I was
a frequent moviegoer, smoking and carefree child
often scolded by other elder boys for not bathing
and for wearing dirty clothes. I was always a distant
observer, at the same time very curious to know
what they (street educators of HCHW) talk and do
with other children.
Although entered the HCHW-CDC yet it took time for
me to respond to the efforts of the social workers.
To avoid them, I used to leave Shelter Home early
in the morning and turn up late in the evenings.
I recall a number of efforts made by HCHW that results
in a change and gradually helped in developing an
instinct in me to attend school and seek education.
It has been a miracle in my life when I was blessed
to seek the formal education system through regular
schools. Days, months and years have passed away
without my realization moving from one class to
another.
During
2003-2004 academic year, I have appeared my VII
class Public Examinations and secured 405 marks
(67%). My joy knew no bounds when I have been one
of the topper in the school. It was indeed this
hour I realized the fact that I am a student and
need to take up serious studies. Presently, I am
studying in VIII standard with the consistent support,
encouragement of the staff of HCHW. I would have
never ever be in this kind of life without their
invaluable love, care and concern towards me all
these years. I bow and thank each one of them. 
Today
and everyday I dream in the night that one day I
must join army and serve the nation. I do hope my
dreams will come true with all your support.
A
Role Model
Six years ago, a 12 years old child left his home
in search of a better life. He belongs to Bhilai,
Madhya Pradesh.
His family was disorganized when his father left
the family. He lived with his mother and younger
brother. It was difficult for his mother to manage
the family since she was a homemaker. She got married
to another person. The new-father was alcoholic
and used to beat the children. Their mother was
helpless as three of them depended on the step-father
for their survival. The children did not receive
the expected love and affection from the new-father.
Hence, they did not accept him.
Once, this 12-year-old boy lost his new pair of
slippers. His mother had beaten him badly for it.
He felt very bad and decided to leave home. He did
not know where to go but, he started his journey
to an unknown destiny. He is Simhachalam. He lived
on streets doing all odd jobs. He moved from one
place to another in trains. It was thrilling for
him. He landed in Hyderabad. By this time, he was
14 years old. The police found him on streets and
referred him to Children’s Home run by the
Department of Juvenile Welfare for his rehabilitation.
He was released from the home after one month. He
came in contact with the street educator of HCHW
and was referred to Child Development Centre of
HCHW.
He
stayed in the CDC for a couple of months and responded
towards repatriation with his family. A staff member
of HCHW accompanied him to his native place in Madhya
Pradesh. His mother gave him warm welcome and wanted
to keep him with them. Simhachalam felt happy and
reciprocated in a positive manner. Hence, he was
left with his family. His happiness did not last
long as the step-father was again a problem. After
a year, again, Simhachalam had to leave his home.
He came back to Hyderabad directly. He joined the
CDC again. By this time he was around 15 –
16 years. This time Simhachalam was helped to join
in a vocational training programme to learn Tailoring.
“My father was a tailor and hence, I also
want to become a tailor” says he. He was given
lot of emotional and psychological support by the
team of CDC to continue his training. Gradually,
he learned the trade with interest. Later, he was
given a job placement in a Tailor shop. In no time
he became a perfect tailor.
Simultaneously,
he was helped again to develop his contacts with
family. Things were changing in his family. His
mother started preferring him than her husband.
He started visiting home regularly. Simhachalam
shared that he wants to have his own tailoring shop/unit.
HCHW provided a tailoring machine to start his own
independent work. And, slowly Simhachalam got separated
from the CDC and lives in a rented home in Hyderabad.
Today, he is around 18 years old and earns around
Rs.5000 per month. Simhachalam has shaped himself
as a role model for other children with his persistence,
hard work and firm determination.
Change
is inenvitable . . .
. . . Depends on Determination
Lakshmi* is infact a live example to prove
that hard work and firm determination will definitely
yield results. Mother of four children and deserted
by her husband, lakshmi used to survive working
as a domestic servant in nearby two-three houses.
None of her children were enrolled in schools nor
she was able to give required attention to the children
as a result of work. Survival was indeed becoming
difficult for her day-by-day. We remember it was
difficult to convince her to join SHG on account
of her busy schedule working for households. Having
joined the SHG, it is to be appreciated that lakshmi
was meticulous and prompt in terms of attending
SHG and following the principles and norms. Added
to it was her keen interest to ensure a better life
for her kids. All these changed her situation in
a span of four years to the extent that all her
children are in schools today. Having learnt tailoring,
she stopped working as maid servant and started
her own tailoring centre. Her earnings are above
Rs.3000 per month. She is at home and also able
to give time to her children. Ofcourse, her previous
contacts have helped her in getting the initial
business. All these could be possible with the Income
Generating Programmes support given by HCHW. Meanwhile,
she could avail a number of schemes of the Government.
Today, she has her own house with all basic amenities
including gas connection under Deepam Scheme. The
most wonder twist in her life that happened four
months back was the return of her husband. Today,
she is happy with her family and business. Her husband
is also seriously learning the trade having plan
that both of them will together run the business
and make a dignified livelihood.
*Name
is changed to respect confidentiality
Back
to Mother’s Lap
JUTTOO, a two and half year old
tiny toddler was referred to HCHW through the local
police station;
the child was kept in Second Home under observation.
Soon, it was found that the child neither has developed
speech, eating habits nor toilet training. With
lot of difficulty one could pick-up the word ‘Bombay’
from shattered murmurs of the child.
Understanding
that the child may be a missing one, his photograph
was published in the local newspaper and later flashed
on the television. However, there was no response.
The child was then referred to Juvenile Justice
Board of Bombay where he was kept for three consecutive
months and efforts were made to find the parents
of Juttoo. Failed in their efforts, the board had
decided to refer the child back to HCHW.
It
was already six months by now, the parents of Juttoo
approached the police station to lodge a complaint
about missing of Juttoo. Coincidentally, at the
same time, they found another person who had come
to lodge a complaint about his missing daughter.
Listening to the narration of Juttoo’s parents
the person recognized and
confirmed that Juttoo has been referred to the same
police station by himself after keeping the child
with him for about one month. Going through the
records, the police officials referred the parents
to HCHW.
When the child was brought before the parents, there
was neither action nor reaction from either of them.
There was utter silence for a moment. It was only
after the mother approached the child and kept her
hand over his head, Juttoo hugged his mother tightly
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