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Fly
High in the Sky
Mynoddin
aged 17 years who hails from Narayankhed mandal
of Medak district joined the umbrella of MARG through
other children in September, 1999. On his interaction
with the coun sellor,
he revealed that he had studied upto 10th class
and wanted to become doctor but was not able to
continue his studies due to financial crisis. The
child was encouraged to continue his studies and
was sent back to his village to get his certificates.
When the child came with his certificates, he was
referred to our Second Home and subsequently admitted
in Government Junior college for Boys, Nampally,
hyderabad. He opted for Science group. His performance
in his Junior Intermediate was excellent and he
created a record in his college by securing 52 marks
out of 60 marks in Botany. He is getting BC Scholarship
and has appeared for Intermediate Examination. presently
he is preparing for his EAMCET examination. Hope
a bright future awaits him.
Dream
Come True
Babu Rao hails from
a small village in Kurnool. Babu Rao was a target
of parental tiff and left his home landing in Hyderabad
with a ray of hope to settle down with good job.While
on the streets,
he met a beneficiary of HCHW-A.P. who helped him
to join the umbrella of MARG. Constant support,
motivation and counselling by the staff of HCHW
helped him to enroll his name for intermediate which
he passed with good marks. Meanwhile he showed interest
in learning Spoken English and was thus enrolled
into“Vivekananda Institute of Spoken English”.
He was encouraged to learn martial arts.After doing
his intermediate, he joined HCHW as a street educator.
He was motivated by the staff of HCHW to go for
further studies. Being inspired by the team of HCHW
and the profession of social work, he wanted to
continue his higher studies in the field of social
work and has joined in Bachelor of Social Work.
At present he is pursuing his Bachelors in Social
Work and has written his degree first year exam.
Transformation
of Lives
E.Venkatesh, 12
year old boy belonging to Mahboobnagar,was never
admitted in school and instead engaged in beedi
making at home. His fate was different from other
children on streets who
leave their homes and land in cities. He came to
city along with his father in search of work, but
to his surprise and shock his father left him on
streets and went away. The child was lucky to meet
our CDC children and thus joined us. While in CDC,
the child worked as a hotel cleaner. The child was
motivated and counselled about the benefits of being
with family and at home. Regular counselling helped
and the child finally decided to go back to his
family. He was repatriated back to his family in
the month of October. The staff members of HCHW-A.P
accompanied the child to his home and counselled
his father about his responsibilities towards family
and cautioned him with the realities of street life.
Now Venkatesh is live
M.
Chandrashekhar, 14 year old boy and a student
of 9th class, is an example of peer influence on
child. Native of Rajamundary, Chandrashekhar’s
father is a doctor. Teenage is a very sensitive
age and children want to be accepted by peer group.
The
same was the case with Chandrashekhar and he started
bunking classes. His father came to know about it
and he literally bashed him. The boy couldn’t
tolerate it and in a verge of anger he left his
home and came to Hyderabad. It was his luck that
he came in contact with Street Educators who asked
him, his whereabouts and referred him to our CDC–Secunderabad,
The counsellor at CDC interacted with the child
and empathized with his feeling and asked about
his dreams and aspirations. The boy aspires to become
a doctor. On knowing his aspirations, the counsellor
added colour to his ambition, and told him about
the ground realities of street life and made him
realise that he couldn’t achieve his ambition
being on streets. Counselling helped the boy realise
his mistake and he agreed to go back to his family.
The child was thus reunited with his family. Child’s
father was also counselled about the stress that
the children face during adolescence period and
was suggested to be friendly with children. Chandrashekhar’s
parents were delighted to get him back and were
thankful to the organization for saving their son’s
future.
A Long Journey . . .
Nayeem, twenty years old, and a
native of Nagarjuna Sagar,Nalgonda District has
been one of the best beneficiaries who has come
a long way. He was about sixteen year old when he
joined Child Development Centre – Hyderabad.
While
staying in Child Development Centre, he worked as
a mason earning Rs.60/- per day. The boy had a habit
of sending the hard earned money to his parents
once in a fortnight. Consistent efforts, counselling
sessions by the staff of Child Development Centre
motivated him to think positively towards life.
As a result he opted to undergo car driving from
Hyderabad Motor Driving School. Meanwhile he joined
in ICSS - Software Training Institute as an office
assistant. As the days and months rolled down, he
was well adjusted with the centre and involved himself
in the rehabilitative and development programmes
of HCHW. His persistence, hard work, determination
and social behaviour helped him to join as an Office
Assistant at HCHW-A.P.presently he is working as
a full fledged Driver cum Personal Assistant to
Director thus enjoying the fruits of his labour.
From
Beneficiary to Auto Driver
Azam
joined the umbrella of HCHW in the year 1996. Since
begining, Azam had exhibited good behaviour and
mannerisms.He had always responded positively towards
the rehabilitation programme. He
was soon well groomed to join as caretaker at Second
Home of HCHW. A few years later, Azam expressed
his desire to learn car driving. Those were the
memorable days for Azam when he joined Hyderabad
Motor Driving School in 2001.He learned the skill
but found it difficult to get the job placement
immediately. On the otherside, his parents had fixed
his marriage. Azam decided to stay in Hyderabad
after marriage with his wife. To maintain his family,
he needed good income.His interest shifted to Auto
driving. He was helped to learn auto driving. Today,
Azam owns an auto (hypothecated to a finance company).
He earns Rs. 200/- a day and leading a happy life
with wife and a baby boy.
A
social worker in the making
Rajaiah
belongs to a remote village in Warangal
District of Andhra Pradesh. Although born and brought
up in a poor peasant family, Rajaiah studied upto
IXth standard and was in Xth Standard when he was
forced to stop education
and take up job to supplement the family income.
The family was in huge debts due to recurring failure
of crops. Rajaiah’s keen interest and his
firm determination to continue studies turned the
situation at home ugly to the extent that he was
badly beaten by his mother. Immediately the same
night Rajaiah left home and thus started the journey
to unknown destination. Moving to different places,
Rajaiah finally landed at Hyderabad. “I worked
in hotels for 14 to 16 hours a day and used to spend
leisure time at Public Gardens”, recalls Rajaiah.
“I have faced many problems on the streets.
I did not get food & shelter. I have also faced
problem with the police in train. They have beaten
me with ‘lathi’. But, slowly I learned
to face all that”
He said.One day, he learned about CHILD LINE 1098,
a toll free facility offering rescue and relief
services for the children in difficult circumstances,
initiated by HCHW. Rajaiah did not believe it but,
wanted to give a try. He made a call to CHILDLINE
seeking shelter. The Crisis Manager of HCHW was
in front of him in minutes. “I did not believe
that people come to render help on receiving a phone
call. It was a pleasant surprise for me when the
Crisis Manager came to the garden in search of me”
He wonders. On knowing Rajaiah’s background,
he was referred to the Shelter Home of HCHW. He
was 14 years old then. The social workers succeeded
in their efforts towards motivating Rajaiah to go
back to his native
place. Rajaiah was accompanied by a social worker
to his home in December 1998.His parents were very
happy to see Rajaiah back.Everyone thought it was
a happy repatriation. But, the real trouble started
then.
The rumors spread in and around the village that
Rajaiah was in the Naxalites camp all these days.
(Naxal movements are very active in Telangana Region
of Andhra Pradesh, Warangal district being the strong
base for Naxal movement).
Rajaiah and his parents were interrogated by the
Police. The police was not satisfied with the explanations
of Rajaiah and his parents that he lived in the
shelter home of HCHW. They suggested to get a written
proof from the HCHW. Rajaiah, with his father rushed
back to Hyderabad.
On
hearing everything, the Director of HCHW gave a
letter to them certifying about the period of stay
of Rajaiah in HCHW. On presenting the letter to
the concerned police officers, they got the relief
but was mometary. Rajaiah was still under suspicion.
“In our villages, if any adolescent or youth
are not seen for a few days then, the rumors spread
that they are in the training camps of Naxalites.
And, their life become miserable with the suspicions
and interrogations” said Rajaiah. It
was a very difficult phase that Rajaiah and his
parents were going through.“Please take my
son back into your shelter home. He is living in
fear and frustration. I am afraid that it may lead
to wrong consequences” pleaded his father.
Thus, Rajaiah wasback to HCHW again.
His previous study certificates helped him to join
in Xth standard. He was very regular to school.
He also joined in NCC. He
secured First Division in SSC examinations. He was,then,helped
to join in Intermediate course. While studying Intermediate,
he developed fascination and interest in Social
Work course. Later, after completing the Intermediate
course,he joined in ‘Bachelor’s Degree
of Social Work’. Rajaiah has good links with
his family members. He visits his family in vacations
and sometimes on the special occasions like festivals,
functions etc., He still feel that the situations
in the remote villages (of Naxalite areas) is not
good. “Many adolescents and youth are still
living in fear, tension and frustration. I am lucky
that I have got a right ‘MARG’ and leading
a happy life. Above all, I am able to continue my
education” says Rajaiah.
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Every
child has a learning mind. A street child
and his behaviour is the result of his interactions,
exposures and experiences on street. Similarly
if a child gets opportunities to interact
with people having an open mind, positive
attitude and acceptable behaviour, he is apt
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Opportunities
. . . at the Right Time makes all the Difference
Shabbir
is fourteen years old. He joined the umbrella of
HCHW in May 1997 with an interest in studies when
he
was eight years old. He was immediately sent to
HCHW - Second Home and admitted in Ist standard
in a private English medium school.Being sharp and
intelligent, he picked up studies very fast and
scored first rank in all tests and examinations,
all through the year and then, year after year.
In the last six academic years shabbir got double
promotions for three times.He bagged two awards
during the last year – one, for always being
first in class. (eversince he joined his school)
and the second for being the best student of the
school. Today,shabbir had just appeared for IXth
standard examination.
Shabbir hails from a family which had migrated from
Warangal District of Andhra Pradesh and settled
in Hyderabad for long. His father, an abusive alcoholic
is an autorikshaw driver. Shabbir is fourth in order
among his nine siblings. Unable to manage the expenses
of such a large family his father stopped the education
of shabbir’s two elder brothers and put them
on job. The next target became shabbir. Although
too young to work, Shabbir was forced to join in
a garage. “My father never used to give money
for the house hold expenditures.
My mother found it very difficult to run the family. Hence,
I had to leave school and join the garage”
recalls Shabbir. He further says “I used to
earn only Rs.10/- per day, but that was really required
at that time for food and sustenance”. Shabbir
had always nurtured a dream for high education and
secured employment with big salary that can solve
all his domestic problems. However, with the situation
at home his dream was getting more and more unrealistic.
“As the day comes to an end and the evening
starts, we all used to be very scary-that our father
comes home, consuming alcohol, and beat our mother
and us without any reasons” recalls Shabbir.
With continued efforts and counseling services of
HCHW staff, shabbir was helped in resuming back
his links with the family. His mother and siblings
were very happy to see him when shabbir was taken
home for the first time. “My
husband will not let shabbir attend school, he will
again put him to work, please keep my child with
you and let him continue his studies”,pleaded
shabbir’s mother at the time of home visit.
shabbir prefered to stay back at HCHW and continue
his studies. “I thought my life will also
end up in doing some labour work like my brothers.
I never imagined that I will be given a second chance
to enjoy my childhood, school life and family environment.
I am thankful to all those who are shaping my future,
my life” says Shabbir like a grownup boy.
The
Glimpses of Childhood in Dreams
Fourteen years old Prabhu joined the umbrella of
HCHW long back in August 1997. He was, then, around
8 years old. During
group activities and one-to-one interactions, the
social workers found that Prabhu belongs to Warangal.
It is further found that Prabhu’s father works
in a Church located beside a petrol pump. Efforts
initiated towards the repatriation of
Prabhu, and he also responded positively. Immediately,
a staff member of HCHW reached Warangal (who is
also a native of Warangal) to locate Prabhu’s
parents and his home. All these efforts have gone
vain. It
was indeed unfortunate that the staff member failed
in his efforts and came back with the information
that there is no such church in Warangal located
beside a petrol pump with his father working over
there. It was indeed a shocking news for Prabhu
also. Thanks to the individual attention given by
the HCHW-Counsellors at that time which had encouraged
Prabhu to accept the reality as it is and involve
himself in the development activities of HCHW.
As a second step, efforts initiated towards creating
an interest in Prabhu towards education and his
enrolment in regular school for formal education.
The social workers succeeded and soon, Prabhu was
joined in school in IInd standard in 1997. Now,
Prabhu is appearing for VIIth standard examinations.
In the last week
of January 2003, Prabhu was observed depressed and
withdrawn. This was understood as natural since
most of his friends had either gone back home or
established a link with their family members. Soon,
Prabhu expressed his desire to meet his family members
with the Resident Social Worker. Prabhu also shared
that he is watching the particular church and petrol
pump located in Mahaboobnagar district of Andhra
Pradesh in his dreams regularly . The RSW immediately
catches the name of the district and tried to confirm
with him. He was reminded by the RSW that he had
earlier said Warangal and as such efforts
were made to trace his family over there and not
in Mahaboobnagar. He confidently confirms Mahaboobnagar
district as his place. This information has further
strengthened the ‘hope’ in Prabhu as
well as the RSW. Prabhu became restless and his
eagerness to visit home was clearly visible in his
eyes and on face. Prabhu was sent to Mahaboobnagar
on 2nd February 2003 along with a trained staff
member of HCHW. It was a miracle. The particular
church and beside it the petrol pump as described
by Prabhu were located.
With little more efforts involving the local people
and with their cooperation, Prabhu’s family
was traced. It was really a joyous moment for Prabhu,
his family and HCHW that Prabhu is back to his family
after six long years.
What the child could not recollect in six
odd
years finally remembered seeing glimpses of his
childhood in dreams
Can
you believe it ! Yes, Prabhu is the live example
On
to the Right ”MARG” . . .
Mohd. Irfan, also known as Sultan, is a 16-year-old
boy, with a family of four brothers, four sisters
and parentsfather an auto driver and mother a housewife.
With a family so huge and a single breadwinner (father),
Irfan was forced to join work at the young age of
six. With no formal education to support he had
to work in garages and workshops. He says “
I like radium work. We can stick different types
and designs of radium stickers on the vehicles”,
recalling his days in a workshop. Irfan was experiencing
the bitterness of poverty, the scarcity of all the
basic necessities was felt, he exclaims, “
the situation in my family was very difficult. Difficult
for anything and everything. All can not get proper
food, clothing etc., It was like a saying ‘Ek
Anar aur Sau Bimar’ (one pomegranate and 100
sick). Irfan like others at his age, dreamt of a
better life, a happier one, and to realize his dreams
he left home and landed on to the roads, but soon
realized that life on streets was not a piece of
cake, he says “I left my home for good but,
it was literally a struggle for survival. Many times,
I thought of going back home but, was afraid that
my parents might beat me and hence, continued on
the streets”. He travelled endlessly, he did
odd jobs like picking rags, shoe shining, sweeping
train bogies, cleaning tea cups and worked as a
cleaner in DCM van and Lorries. Finally at
Hyderabad, to his delight he was spotted by HCHW’s
street educator, who had joined him at the CDC-Hyderabad
and thus began his journey on to the right ”MARG”.
At CDC, Irfan was regular to the Non- formal education
classes; he later joined the screenprinting unit
to under go the six months training. Also efforts
were made to make Irfan realize that he should be
back with his family, he was positive about it but
he expressed “If I go home now, my parents
will ask me what did you do all these days and what
are you doing now. So, I want to get the full training
and then, a good job. Then, I can go home proudly
and say that I am working in so and so place and
earning so much of money”. Irfan had planned
to go home on Bakrid festival, by then he would
complete his training and expected to acquire a
job also. With the help of the Social Workers, he
did indeed get a good job, earning Rs.1500/- per
month. As planned, Irfan went home, along with the
Social Worker. Irfan’s parents couldn’t
believe what they were seeing! “We searched
for him in many places. We spent lot of money in
travelling from place to place for him. Many times
we thought that he might not be alive since, it
is too long that he had left home. We lost all our
hopes that he will come back home. This is the real
festival for us that Irfan came back; we really
want to celebrate this” Irfan’s father
said in a choked voice.
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Today,
Irfan is a happy boy, so is his family. Wishing
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“I
thought my life would end working in the garage
just like my brothers, i had never imagined that
i would go back to school” says Shabbir, who
has come a long way today from working at a garage
for Rs.10/- a day at the age of eight, having scored
first class marks with distinction in the ssc. He
dreams of becoming an engineer. We wish him good
luck
Highlights |
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Secondary
School Certificate |
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VII
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A
total of eight children appeared for SSC
examination. Out of that six children got
first division and rest two passed in
second division. Congratulations
children! You have really made us happy
with your consistent academic
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Another eight children appeared for VII class
common examination. Out of that six children
got first class and rest two passed in second
division. Master Md.Omer is the topper
bearing hall ticket no. 78071 and securing
with a distinction marks of 444 (74 percent).
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The
twist that unfold the trauma
Master Syed Mohammed is a ten year
child, hails from Charminar, Hyderabad. His mother
who got remarried after his father’s death
and left him with grandparents. He used to work
in a hotel. His elder sister used to harass him
on petty issues. Thus, he left home and landed on
the streets. He was traced by one of our street
educators and referred to Child Development Centre-Secunderabad.
After constant counseling, the child agreed to go
back to his aunty.
The real twist in story is… after reaching
the address and meeting guardians, our caretaker
came to know that the boy was not a boy !!! But
to his astonishment a girl !!! In an
interactive counseling, the girl revealed with dripping
tears in her eyes “since, i am not able to
withstand the ill treatment at my house, i came
on the street. But, i know as a girl it is very
difficult to survive on street, facing other people.
So, in disguise of boy,
I wanted to protect myself. I even changed my name
from tasleem to syed mohammed. All that I need in
my life is love and care.” Hence, the guardians
were counselled and suggested to give attention
towards her emotional needs.
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